Please, No Drama Ladies!

With each increase in decibel or the number of “We need to talk(s)”, he withdrew. And each time he “went away”, she sank into despair. Is this what he calls drama?

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How Can We Get Past the Photos?

Do you ever wonder what people are thinking when they post a primary photo of themselves from ten years ago or a head shot taken when madras was still in fashion? To be honest, it’s to get the seeker past the photo hoping that by reading the profile, they will be seen in a more complete way for who they truly are.

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How to Talk to a Man

I have spent a lifetime learning a very important lesson about needing to “talk” and ended relationships that may have been viable because of what I didn’t understand about men. You can talk with a man you care about, but here’s what you need to know…

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Is it Too Late to Change??

If you are in a relationship or looking for a partner, especially later in life, what can you expect? Does age mean it’s time to settle down, dig into routine, stay home and plant a garden?

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Settling or Compromising??

“Settling” occurs when we “know better” and make a choice to get into or stay in a relationship because of fear of being alone or, God forbid, having to get back into the freezing waters of the dating pool.

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