How Can We Get Past the Photos?

Do you ever wonder what people are thinking when they post a primary photo of themselves from ten years ago or a head shot taken when madras was still in fashion? To be honest, it’s to get the seeker past the photo hoping that by reading the profile, they will be seen in a more complete way for who they truly are.

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Frozen is More Than a Movie

Are you longing to have someone in your life, but he/she just isn’t “appearing”?  Let’s not oversimplify this because for many of us, that unrequited longing for love is really painful. There are no easy answers to finding a partner that will put an end to the ache  of wanting love. But, there are some…

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Is Finding Love a Crap Shoot??

 This is republished by demand!   Those of us unfortunate enough to be in the “dating pool” these days are having the perpetual discussion, debate or argument depending on which friend you are talking with over a glass of wine. It goes like this… “I just want to meet him ‘naturally’, not online. You know,…

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…”Love You Until You are 70.”??

It’s a sweet song by a 24 year old…and he has NO IDEA how beautiful love will be even after 70.    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzpPmpul4L4 A friend of mine who was in her early 70’s was in a new relationship with a man she met on a hiking trip and she was glowing, happy and looking like…

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The Gift of Imperfection

  “Maybe you and I were never meant to be complete Could we just be broken together If you can bring your shattered dreams and I’ll bring mine Could healing still be spoken and save us The only way we’ll last forever is broken together” Excerpted from “Broken Together” performed by Casting Crowns   Most…

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A Clean Slate

How much information about our past do we need to share when we meet someone?   Recently a friend introduced me to a really wonderful man. Now this in and of itself is a novel thing…to be introduced to someone instead of swimming in the pool of online dating. After the introduction, the two of…

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Baby Steps to Love…What Can You Learn From a Profile?

Life can get complicated when we begin the search for love. Online dating is one of the best ways I know to increase the chances of meeting someone, but before you begin searching for your match, pay exquisite attention to what writing your own profile tells you about how you view yourself. What makes a…

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