Please, No Drama Ladies!

With each increase in decibel or the number of “We need to talk(s)”, he withdrew. And each time he “went away”, she sank into despair. Is this what he calls drama?

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How do we Know?

  A friend of mine texted me this morning saying she had been in a gerbil wheel all night long wondering if a man she recently met was going to be able to “go the distance”. Viagra takes care of some version of  that, but she was talking about her desire for a long term…

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What Qualifies as a Break-Up?

Have You Ever Experienced This?   You meet someone, feel like you’d like to know more about him/her so you make a “coffee date”. The beauty of those of course is that you don’t get an ulcer over a long dinner while you say over and over, “What was I THINKING?!”   Okay, the conversation…

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How to Give the Perfect Gift!

  It is crazy! Have you found yourself feeling all warm and fuzzy when that hunky Forrest Whitaker appears on TV telling you all about “accident forgiveness”? What??!!  Over time, clever insurance company advertising has actually made us forget that the reason we pay those premiums every month our entire lives is BECAUSE we might…

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A Clean Slate

How much information about our past do we need to share when we meet someone?   Recently a friend introduced me to a really wonderful man. Now this in and of itself is a novel thing…to be introduced to someone instead of swimming in the pool of online dating. After the introduction, the two of…

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