What “Rules of Dating” Really Matter?

Remember going to the junior high dance with your girlfriends and waiting for one of those cute, sweet guys to cross the gym’s Arabian Desert with the confidence of the Fonz? Pretty much didn’t happen, right? Well, why are we still believing that is their job when it was too scary for them way back then?

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Please, No Drama Ladies!

With each increase in decibel or the number of “We need to talk(s)”, he withdrew. And each time he “went away”, she sank into despair. Is this what he calls drama?

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Check Please!

A dinner check, and even who pays for a cup of coffee can set the tone for everything that happens or doesn’t from that moment on. Why is that? Because we have attached so much meaning to this gesture and never really talk about it before we go out with someone.

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How to Talk to a Man

I have spent a lifetime learning a very important lesson about needing to “talk” and ended relationships that may have been viable because of what I didn’t understand about men. You can talk with a man you care about, but here’s what you need to know…

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Is it Too Late to Change??

If you are in a relationship or looking for a partner, especially later in life, what can you expect? Does age mean it’s time to settle down, dig into routine, stay home and plant a garden?

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Finding Grace

I am the first to agree that television is mostly crap these days. And yet, occasionally Aaron Sorkin or some other brilliant writer moves me from “Jaded and Disgusted” to “OMG!”

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