What “Rules of Dating” Really Matter?

Remember going to the junior high dance with your girlfriends and waiting for one of those cute, sweet guys to cross the gym’s Arabian Desert with the confidence of the Fonz? Pretty much didn’t happen, right? Well, why are we still believing that is their job when it was too scary for them way back then?

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She Doesn’t Want to Move In?

She has nothing but great things to say about the relationship and yet, tonight once again declared, “I’m not the least bit interested in moving in with him. I love my house and my time alone there.”

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She Just Wants to Dance…or Does She?

Looking around, I realized this song isn’t just about dancing, maybe not about dancing at all. It’s about the longing, women’s fiery determination, the trepidation we feel when we push so hard every day to be ourselves. Our sexual selves, strong selves, wicked and fun selves.

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There is No Painless Ending

When did women inherit the enormous responsibility for what happens in relationships with men? Does estrogen give them the superpower to be able to simultaneously be vulnerable, soft and present while being hyper-vigilant so as not to hurt a man?

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Check Please!

A dinner check, and even who pays for a cup of coffee can set the tone for everything that happens or doesn’t from that moment on. Why is that? Because we have attached so much meaning to this gesture and never really talk about it before we go out with someone.

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I Need a Man

Most of us know where we went so far left with being independent and self-sufficient that we relegated men to fish on bicycles. Our Orwellian world today confirmed it. We only need their sperm.

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Ageless Love

Last weekend I had the privilege of spending three hours with ten of the most wonderful women in the world.   We were there to talk about finding love after 55.  Revolutionary idea, right? Seems Madison Avenue thinks we are all done, over-the-hill and headed for pasture after age 25. Boy, do we have something…

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Do You Throw Like a Girl?

I recently found what I consider one of  the most important corporate sponsored videos ever produced. Take the time to view it…then, let’s talk. Here it is…Watch, then scroll down Would you believe it if I told you that this disdain of girls, or being “like a girl” has shaped generation after generation of not…

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