What “Rules of Dating” Really Matter?

Remember going to the junior high dance with your girlfriends and waiting for one of those cute, sweet guys to cross the gym’s Arabian Desert with the confidence of the Fonz? Pretty much didn’t happen, right? Well, why are we still believing that is their job when it was too scary for them way back then?

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I Dance, You Dance…Are We Compatible?

There are many many problems associated with online dating, including the algorithm that matches us by Interests and calls it compatibility. When we scroll down beyond 5’2″, Yes. Children and they live at home, and asking someone 72 if they want more children…

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Trusting Myself Again

I am a sucker for a great writer. Someone whose writing makes me feel like I just ate a chocolate eclair. Speaking of eclairs, if he says he loves to cook and adds “for you” to that, I want to pack an overnight bag right then and there.

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I’m at it Again!!

I am not the same woman I was when I took myself off Match a year ago because I met a man who said, “I want to focus on us to see what can happen.” A lot happened. It was in many ways truly the time of my life.

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Love is All Around Us

Silly me…I watched “Four Weddings and a Funeral” way too close to Valentine’s Day. By the end of it, I was heavily identified with the feelings at the funeral.

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Why Are the Boomers Ageist When Looking for Love?

If when you look at that photo and know it doesn’t match their age, smile and remember the person who shows up in the coffee shop is the same man or woman in the picture, perhaps with a few more years of wisdom and life experience that might be just what you want in a perfect partner.

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We Are All a Mess

When I asked her if she snuggled up to that wonderful husband of almost 50 years, she said, “No. I didn’t try that. But I will now.” See, sometimes love is right there to heal you if you simply remember.

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