Certainty

For a moment, imagine if you were certain about everything in your life including the time, place and way that you would pass from this world to the next. Really. Take the time to just imagine it.

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We’re All in a Delicate Condition

There’s enough oxytocin flowing to fill a koi pond and it feels like no time has passed when you are together. Eager to know this new person, you begin to ask him/her about life, love, children, work, plans for retirement, favorite foods, whether they want to thrash Donald Trump.

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Do You Believe in Magic?

Now, understand that I don’t subscribe to the idea that magic in and of itself will bring you what you dream about. If that were the case, I’d only to have dreamed of Mr. Right once and saved myself all this work. Sorry, but it also requires something of us.

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I Want to Travel! He Wants to Garden…Sound Familiar?

Does age mean it’s time to settle down, dig into routine, stay home and plant a garden? For some people, that’s the formula they want. And for others, dating,mating and relating late in life means an opportunity for adventure, travel, exploring new places and trying new things.

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She Doesn’t Want to Move In?

She has nothing but great things to say about the relationship and yet, tonight once again declared, “I’m not the least bit interested in moving in with him. I love my house and my time alone there.”

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John Mayer Knows Why We Aren’t Finding Love

If you wonder why it is so so hard to find love, it’s because every bone in our bodies is terrified! That we might find a crazy person? She/he isn’t out there? I’m too old. All these yucky defeating feelings keep our posteriors stuck on the sofa watching chick flicks and downing gelato by the tub.

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