Happy Holidays…Inspiration

I’m in the 50% of people who are finding the holidays a little difficult this year. Yes, 50% of us are not writing those Christmas letters, sending cards or able to do shopping that requires more than hitting the “Go to Cart” button. There’s hope so keep reading…

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Is it Better Just to Settle Rather Than Be Alone?

When individuals settle, they lose themselves in the process. Bargaining with your moral compass can result in depression and victimization. Often it’s more subtle. Maybe you don’t feel “that bad” or you say, “it’s better than being alone” Is it???

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Don’t Ask Unless You Really Want to Know

How many times when someone asks you how you are, have you wanted to really tell them the God awful true answer…”I’m really crappy,” or “I’m a hot mess.” but you don’t know if they’re ready to hear what life is really feeling like at that moment?

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Why Are the Boomers Ageist When Looking for Love?

If when you look at that photo and know it doesn’t match their age, smile and remember the person who shows up in the coffee shop is the same man or woman in the picture, perhaps with a few more years of wisdom and life experience that might be just what you want in a perfect partner.

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It’s Just One of Those Days

This morning I woke up having had a fitful night wrestling with crazy dreams. I felt as if I had a block of lead in my belly and I knew this morning wasn’t going to look like a Julie Andrews’ kind of thing.

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