This is My Valentine’s Wish to Those I Love




Were it not for you, my life would be far less beautiful. Here is my card to all of you and the words are those of Rhina Espaillat, “Guidelines” from Her Place in These Designs






“Here’s what you need to do, since time began:

find something–diamond-rare or carbon-cheap

it’s all the same–and love it all you can.


It should be something close–a field, a man,

a line of verse, a mouth, a child asleep–

that feels like the world’s heart since time began.

Don’t measure much or lay things out or scan;

don’t save yourself for later, you won’t keep;

spend yourself now on loving all you can.

It’s going to hurt. That was the risk you ran

with your first breath; you knew the price was steep,

that loss is what there is, since time began

subtracting from your balance.  That’s the plan,

too late to quibble now, you’re in too deep.

Just love what you still have, while you still can.


Don’t count on schemes, it’s far too short a span

from the first sowing till they come to reap.

One way alone to count, since time began:

love something, love it hard, now, while you can.”


Treasure those you love this Valentine’s Day!




1 Comment

  1. SHELLEY on February 16, 2016 at 7:03 am

    Lovely! Thank you

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